Long but good. Thank you for the tag - not sure I would have dived in otherwise as I am entirely allergic to online groups of women that rate or otherwise discuss men in a non-educational format. Far too much “feminine painbody” immune response in such groups, even while they do serve a partly just & useful function (helping women avoid real risks).
Knowing that women are the OG networkers and that our webs of communication will never go away, and we can only hope that slowly (due to intentional, persistent work on my part and the part of hundreds of other women who serve the primordial Feminine & union between men + women), the embodiment curve will accelerate and the mature, sovereign Feminine will re-anchor as the primary energetic to attune to.
In lieu of that, I completely understand why men have become more guarded and how the shrewd ones assume anything said privately can become public.
At the risk of sounding like I am “telling men what to do” (something I am also allergic to), I’ll just state the obvious that grounded women tend to be erotically evoked by clarity and repelled by ambiguous emotional entanglements. Women (maidens) who balk at clarity and are drawn to messy or otherwise vague relational environments are earlier on in their journeys of descent (and therefore, discernment, personal responsibility, and sovereignty), and come with the risky lens of still being able to be victimized by their circumstances.
I was divorced in 2003 after a shitty seven year marriage to a a narcissistic psychopath. It took me a decade to get back on my feet financially.
Divorce rape is a definite thing.
Long but good. Thank you for the tag - not sure I would have dived in otherwise as I am entirely allergic to online groups of women that rate or otherwise discuss men in a non-educational format. Far too much “feminine painbody” immune response in such groups, even while they do serve a partly just & useful function (helping women avoid real risks).
Knowing that women are the OG networkers and that our webs of communication will never go away, and we can only hope that slowly (due to intentional, persistent work on my part and the part of hundreds of other women who serve the primordial Feminine & union between men + women), the embodiment curve will accelerate and the mature, sovereign Feminine will re-anchor as the primary energetic to attune to.
In lieu of that, I completely understand why men have become more guarded and how the shrewd ones assume anything said privately can become public.
At the risk of sounding like I am “telling men what to do” (something I am also allergic to), I’ll just state the obvious that grounded women tend to be erotically evoked by clarity and repelled by ambiguous emotional entanglements. Women (maidens) who balk at clarity and are drawn to messy or otherwise vague relational environments are earlier on in their journeys of descent (and therefore, discernment, personal responsibility, and sovereignty), and come with the risky lens of still being able to be victimized by their circumstances.
I’m tired boss.
Female gossip apps may be wrong, but I don’t think openly being a pervert on the internet is helping your reputation either.
It actually helps because it lets you own it and shape the narrative in advance