Dating Advice For Womyn

How to manipulate a man into marriage💍

The following is a list of asymmetric tactics girls can deploy to secure a husband.

Take my advice or don’t, but I know how fuckboys think and am friends with a ton of gals who got locked in retarded forever engagements because they didn’t do this shit.

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1. Don't impose hard filters on dating apps if they're not actually hard filters IRL. For instance, if you'd be perfectly fine dating a 5'10 dude don't put a 6’0 filter just because height is the most immediately salient trait for you. This is the single biggest way in which girls fuck themselves in the modern dating market.

2. So how do you filter all those niggas on Hinge? The answer is reverse arbitrage based on your specific preferences. Ask yourself what turns you off the LEAST in a man between e.g. short, poor, fat, balding, minority. Then deliberately go after men in that demo who are top notch in all of the other dimensions and will treat you like a goddess because you don't care about his Achilles Heel.

3. It doesn't really matter how soon you sleep with him, that’s a silly Woman Myth. That said, a lot of men won't know if they actually like you until they've fucked you a few times and seen your evil cunty side (which only comes out to the full extent in a sexual relationship). Also most guys in a degenerate libtard ecology aren't going to wait more than like a month unless they know you're very low body count. Generally I'd say let him smash slightly earlier than you'd ideally prefer him to, because your obvious vulnerability will create a nested power dynamic that can be deployed against him later. Making men feel guilty is the best way to get things from them unless they literally have clinical NPD.

4. Every man lies about his height, dick size, and income. It’s totally acceptable for you to lie about your partner count, but make the lie tasteful. 10 to 6 is okay and experienced men will simply expect that; 72 to 11 will make him feel betrayed when you inevitably squeal years later. Similarly, don’t use pics from like ten years ago when you were 50 lbs lighter, but three years ago and 15 pounds is acceptable.

5. Never lie about being sluttier than you actually are or kinkier than you actually are because you think it will impress him. First off no it won't, and second this is DEEPLY unethical and will create a bunch of situations that end up horribly uncomfy for both of you. If you like the dude you can and should let him push your boundaries and just be very open about feeling uncomfortable—that will be hot for him and give you tremendous implicit power in the relationship going forward that you can probably trade on for an earlier ring.

6. Most guys will mentally classify you as Wife Material, Waste Her Time Material, or Cheap Pussy within the first few dates. These days I know it in thirty seconds. You'll know which one you are based on how he treats you. You'll know better than he himself will if the dude is young and inexperienced. There's not really a way to get promoted between the ranks short term because it's kind of just a relative social status / looks differential thing. Long term drift between them is obviously very possible, but probably even more unconscious on his end.

7. Even guys who see you as Wife Material will often need an incentive to get you a ring these days instead of treating you like a glorified concubine. The cow milk thing is actually real—just not really for sex. It's for shit like helping him with his career and sacrificing your own, picking up his dirty underwear and checking his mail, doing his grocery shopping, etc. That's the stuff it's undignified to do for a man without a ring. But merely giving him sloppy toppy won't make him value you any less, at least these days.

8. You can, however, lock stuff like anal / sex tapes / facefucking behind a ring paywall and most guys will see that as a perfectly legit motivating factor. You can also easily lie and say you ~haven't done any of that before to trade on a kind of second virginity with your butthole. If he never finds out you're actually doing him a favor IMO. It's extremely important he never finds out though; don’t be a mean cunt and “accidentally” drop it to him three years into the marriage that you let Chad fuck your ass on the first date.

9. NEVER EVER make a dude jealous once you're married, because that is genuinely quite evil. But before getting a ring it's totally fine to make him jealous with plausibly deniable flirting. Only do so with guys you'd actually branch swing to though and never with an obvious loser or someone too hot or powerful who's clearly just wanting to use you for pussy. The rival’s overall status level should be in the same general ballpark as your boyfriend’s. But the guy should ideally excel in something your dude sucks at. If you execute correctly this can significantly shorten the time horizon on a proposal.

10. It's utterly trivial to lock a bitch in a forever engagement and guilt her into giving back the ring, so don't take literally any of that seriously without a hard marriage date he seems enthusiastic about. If he's not enthusiastic about it find a dude who is or you'll get stalled out and once you're like 29 he'll ditch you for a 23yo and your resentful ass will spend the next decade stinking up the thirties dating pool.