Well, we know what's happened to the millennial Henry Miller or Philip Roth. (That is a compliment, BTW.) You and Delicious Tacos, and Dan Baltic if he ever writes us a new book.
OK, as one aging bachelor to a less aged bachelor: the girls are going to get older, and you are going to have to make a decision as to the kids thing. As they get older they tend to have kids, too; it's just the human life cycle. I won't try to sway you one way or the other; you obviously have a love for variety. You don't have to post about it in your blog, and you don't have to do what your audience wants you to do; you're the one who has to live your life, and it's better to piss off everyone and disappear if you get to do what you actually want with it. And if you decide not to spawn, have an old-age plan; you want to have friends who are going to look out for you.
"One reason for this is that I experience a rather severe disgust response when forced to interface with people who aren’t 115+ IQ and at least 80th percentile in trait openness."
This is probably why you keep dating Jewish women, I think. That particular combination is a lot more common in Jewish people.
> Female friends are obviously an entirely different landscape. Generally with girls I’ll either need to fuck them or put myself in a position to fuck them eventually maybe or position myself as their next rebound.
Oh, what wonders await you in your late 40s, when you may achieve a state of satori that lets you free yourself from caring even slightly about this.
To be clear, I certainly don't wish isolation on you at that point, particularly since you are far more extroverted than I am, but it has been truly glorious for me finally hitting the point where sure, female companionship would be cool, but it's far less a driving factor for me that actually going and building shit.
I avoid group settings--they make calculated social performance infinitely more difficult and dramatically raise the salience of status hierarchies in a way I find disagreeable. So my first instinct is to say I don't have a sophisticated opinion on the matter.
That said it's great fun catching another nigga like me in the wild and calling them out when they try to seize positional leverage with cartoonishly overt manipulation tactics that women and normgroids would never pick up on.
Meanwhile I kind of insulate myself against people calling me out by very overtly narrating what I'm doing.
Well, we know what's happened to the millennial Henry Miller or Philip Roth. (That is a compliment, BTW.) You and Delicious Tacos, and Dan Baltic if he ever writes us a new book.
OK, as one aging bachelor to a less aged bachelor: the girls are going to get older, and you are going to have to make a decision as to the kids thing. As they get older they tend to have kids, too; it's just the human life cycle. I won't try to sway you one way or the other; you obviously have a love for variety. You don't have to post about it in your blog, and you don't have to do what your audience wants you to do; you're the one who has to live your life, and it's better to piss off everyone and disappear if you get to do what you actually want with it. And if you decide not to spawn, have an old-age plan; you want to have friends who are going to look out for you.
"One reason for this is that I experience a rather severe disgust response when forced to interface with people who aren’t 115+ IQ and at least 80th percentile in trait openness."
This is probably why you keep dating Jewish women, I think. That particular combination is a lot more common in Jewish people.
It's so hilarious to me, the ways in which I remember once being you. :D
Though you do at least seem to have figured a few things out a lot sooner than I did.
>nothing gay happened
we were about to lose sleep over this thx for the disclaimer
if i tell people i slept in his bed, they might get the wrong idea.
gold
Walter as in the black guy from fresh and fit?
Was Amanda an ENFP? The description reminds me a lot of one I knew.
she tested INFP but I think she was just depressed bc around me she always acted ENFP
Makes sense... ENFPs are the most introverted of extraverts and only really come out of their shell when they go full manic.
Where can I find your piece about what you like (don’t like?) about black people mentioned in the Sadina interview?
https://www.waltbismarck.com/p/things-i-like-about-black-people
Thank you Mr. Bismarck!
> Female friends are obviously an entirely different landscape. Generally with girls I’ll either need to fuck them or put myself in a position to fuck them eventually maybe or position myself as their next rebound.
Oh, what wonders await you in your late 40s, when you may achieve a state of satori that lets you free yourself from caring even slightly about this.
To be clear, I certainly don't wish isolation on you at that point, particularly since you are far more extroverted than I am, but it has been truly glorious for me finally hitting the point where sure, female companionship would be cool, but it's far less a driving factor for me that actually going and building shit.
I avoid group settings--they make calculated social performance infinitely more difficult and dramatically raise the salience of status hierarchies in a way I find disagreeable. So my first instinct is to say I don't have a sophisticated opinion on the matter.
That said it's great fun catching another nigga like me in the wild and calling them out when they try to seize positional leverage with cartoonishly overt manipulation tactics that women and normgroids would never pick up on.
Meanwhile I kind of insulate myself against people calling me out by very overtly narrating what I'm doing.